Sex for Sale
Sex for Sale
Many of our existing prostitution laws are "outdated, confusing and ineffective," says Home Secretary David Blunkett. I’m inclined to agree with him, and am pleased to hear that there is going to be a long overdue and badly needed review of prostitution laws. During this review there will be a number of options discussed: such as the decriminalisation of brothels and the creation of tolerance zones for street prostitution in non-residential areas and away from the general public. I hope at least one of these options is realised – preferably the former. After all, it is quite ridiculous that in the year 2004 government is still dictating that sex under certain conditions between consenting adults is taboo.
Each member of the adult population should be free to do as he or she wishes insofar as his actions do not adversely affect a non-consenting party (but even then there may be exceptions to this general rule). What two or more consenting adults do in private should be of no concern to government, and they should be free to negotiate such private relationships as they see fit. If a man or a woman is willing to pay someone to have sex with them, and another man or woman consents to receive that payment in return for sex, then far be it from anyone else to seek to legislate against them so doing. People buy and exchange goods and services all the time, why should sexual services be any different?
When a poor man sells his TV in order to make it through a particularly difficult time we don’t tend to think he is being exploited. When a woman works a 2nd job in he evening or at weekends providing some service for a business so as to make ends meet, we don’t tend to think of her as being exploited either. However, if a man or a woman receives money in return for sex there is a chorus of denunciation and a plethora of lamentation about exploitation, particularly when women are involved. And yet, there is little difference between the cases mentioned above. It is surely up to the person in question how they earn their money. When we regard one form of earning money as exploitation and another as a legitimate means of gain we demonstrate nothing other than the age-old hang-up with sex and everything sex related.
Prostitution is frequently blasted on the grounds that it exploits women. However, if a woman is well treated and well paid in such a job why should we speak of exploitation? Many prostitutes make middle-class earnings and more, but unfortunately too many people seem to have the stereotype prostitute in their minds: an abused single mother, in the hands of a controlling pimp, trying to feed her hungry children and her heroin addiction. The truth is many prostitutes make good money, have good lives, and actually enjoy their profession. Aren’t 18-year-old secretaries working long hours for low pay for abrupt and disrespectful bosses far better candidates for "Exploited Worker of the Month" award than many prostitutes working few hours for good money in good conditions? I’ve never heard much by way of petition on behalf of overworked and underpaid secretaries. The charge of exploitation is, I fear, but a smoke screen for the real problem: we just don’t want people having sex in ways we find morally repugnant.
We should go even further than this and say that even if it were true that exploitation is the norm in the sex industry, we would still not have established the need to keep prostitution illegal. In any industry, and in most matters of employment, what is required is more careful monitoring and transparency. We should seek to reduce the amount of exploitation, not ban the industry in which it has occurred. In fact, it is fairly obvious that much of the exploitation occurs precisely because the industry is illegal. There are no controls, no security, and little legal or protection. The inevitable happens: the industry disappears underground and continues in a much more insidious form.
When all is said and done the concept of morality needs to be separated from the concept of legality. What we think is immoral is not necessarily what should be made illegal. Law should not control matters of private morality. Along with homosexuality, one-night-stands, and masturbation, prostitution is a matter of private sexual morality. It may indeed be immoral. It may even be dangerous. But, it should not be made illegal on this basis. The question of government interference should only be raised when something of necessity concerns or adversely affects someone else, an unconsenting party. Until such time as this is the case, private matters between consenting adults should not be bound by law.
Stephen Graham B.Th (Hons)